SAYING GOODBYE....
My father recently died and the funeral was on Monday. His death was not unexpected, he fought a long battle with cancer, yet even though we knew it was expected, we are never ready to say goodbye. But we did. It was a lovely service, with all four children, twelve grand children (and one great grand child) attending. One of my brothers did a reading, as did my daughter. And I did the eulogy. This was one of the most difficult things I have ever written. I did one for my brother-in-law, but I was one of several who shared memories, stories and thoughts. Here, I was one voice, trying to capture the shared memories of four children. I must admit it took quite a few days to write. So many memories that I couldn't include....I would have spoken for hours otherwise. But I did my best to attempt to sum him up. His hobbies and interests...the way he was. I wanted my family to be proud of the final piece of writing. To be able to say, yes that was him. Yo...