FIXED IDEAS....
Last weekend I went hunting for a particular outfit. Anyone that knows me, is well aware of my great ability to buy clothes (NOT). So it was with much trepidation I went out with my fashionista (daughter) as my guide. I kept two things in mind---don't let the side down....but more importantly be open minded. I decided I would try on anything offered to me...any style....any shape....any colour. And while this did result in some amusing (perhaps if you weren't me....I mean looking like a pale lemon cucumber is not my thing) it had benefits. In the end, much to my surprise, I had two dresses I couldn't decide between. So in a rush of over heated enthusiasm, got both. So why did this work out? We all know occasions when we go out, intent because we have to buy this...it has to be this length, this shape, this colour and this fabric. And because we are being so specific, we can never find it. We return home defeated. Upset that we can't get exactly what we wa...